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The Truth About Men and Commitment

Have you ever heard (or have you ever said) that men are “commitment-phobic”? What if that's not true? I’m not talking about the men who are in a stage where they want to play, have sex with lots of women, have adventures…no matter how long that stage lasts. That is...

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How to Have a Great Valentine’s Day

If you’re like most women, you can get yourself fairly worked up leading up to Valentine’s Day...and the media sure does throw gas on that fire! You’ve probably had at least a few disappointing experiences in your life, as you’ve hoped for some wonderful gesture of...

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Giving and Doing Too Much = Resentment

I taught a workshop this past weekend, and lots of the women could relate to it when I talked about how giving too much, or giving with an expectation of something in return (and not getting it) causes a big problem with resentment. And we all know that resentment is...

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Have a Good Attitude for Great Results

It’s a new year – want to make sure you meet that great man? Yeah! So, how do you do that? I’m a huge fan of online dating, and I’ll tell you why. When you’re looking for single men to date who are a fit for what you’re looking for, and who want what you want, you...

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A Surprising(?) Benefit of Gratitude

This week is Thanksgiving here in the U.S. and a great time to think about gratitude. And one of the most amazing things about "wanting what you have"...check it out in the video below.

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Advice About Taking Advice

You probably have well-meaning advisers in your life, right? My suggestion? Only take advice from those people who already have, or do, what you want. They have a good idea how to help you get there, too.

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Dating? Never do this, okay?

Way too many women allow physical intimacy before they're ready for it. This week's video will help you understand why this is such a bad idea - for both of you! After watching, please promise me that you will never do this again.

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Why You WANT to be In This Club

I've been accused of being a strong advocate - even defender - of men, and it makes me happy (and it's true!). In today's Tasty Tuesday Tidbit I talk about why you may want to join me in this club, if you want to have even better results in your relationships with...

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Want (More of) Men’s Greatness? Here’s how!

Do you really want more intimacy, connection and closeness with men? Want to experience more of men's greatness? Be a safe place for that to happen (which means you stop letting your inner Cavewoman choose the men you'll be with).

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Do You Offer Too Much Information In Your Profile?

As you probably know, I'm a huge fan of online dating - IF you do it right. Unfortunately, way too many women over-share in their essay, which can kill, not encourage, attraction. If you'd like to have me check out your profile, I have a program for you! Check it out...

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Change Your Story (and change your life)

If you're human, you have stories about yourself. And some of those stories are causing you (unnecessary) pain. Today's video helps you get some perspective, change your story, and gives you a boost in the right direction.

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Does Online Dating Work?

I get asked all the time, does online dating work? Are you one of those wondering whether or not online dating is effective for meeting people? This week's video tip helps you ask yourself a much more valuable question, and insight into your answer.

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Make Sure Your Efforts (and his!) Are ‘Landing’

If you're like most people, you have a particular way that you most feel loved, whether it's verbal expressions, or time together, etc. The amount of love that's being expressed in relationships - and NOT landing for the other - is astounding. This video will help...

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