The Truth About Men and Commitment

Have you ever heard (or have you ever said) that men are “commitment-phobic”?

What if that’s not true?

I’m not talking about the men who are in a stage where they want to play, have sex with lots of women, have adventures…no matter how long that stage lasts.

That is not your business. Unless you’re trying to convert a man who’s in that stage, into a man who is committed to you. (What a bad idea!)

The truth? Men take their commitments very seriously. Whether to their work, or to their women, or to their children, or to their team/sports.

They’re committed, and they’re loyal to what they’re committed to.

And if you’re a woman who can support his commitment(s), you’ll look like a woman who could be a great partner and a great member of his team. You’ll be an asset to him, and will be very attractive to him (please don’t fake this, by the way – it’ll come back to bite you in the ass, no doubt about it).

And – very important: if he’s not ready to commit to what you want (marriage, kids), you want to respect that. He has an idea of what he wants to be able to provide when he commits to you, and he’s not there yet.

I strongly recommend that you spend time looking for the evidence (and it’s everywhere!) of men’s relationship to commitment.

That’s your assignment, should you choose to accept it.