Want a Man

He Does Not Know How to Commit

Karen, I’ve met a man I am pretty excited about – I’ve dated SO many men over the last few years, and he seems to have everything I’m looking for.  That’s the great news.  Now, the one little “red flag”, which is why I’m writing, is that he’s in his early 50s, and has...

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Can He Change His Mind and Commit?

Dear Karen, I’ve been dating a man for the past couple of months, and I’m crazy about him.  I’ve never connected with someone so well, or so deeply.  My only issue is that he’s told me that he is not interested in being in a committed relationship (he’s just gotten...

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Tapping (EFT) Help for "Those" Moments

Those" moments when: you are furious with your man; you're so nervous about your date you can't think clearly; you're having a talk and you're feeling overwhelmed with emotion... try this quick technique (it works like a charm!).

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Paying on a Date

Hello Karen, I have a quick question: I’ve just gotten back into the dating “scene” after many years of being in a relationship.  What’s the deal with paying on dates?  Thanks for any guidance you can offer. – Judy, NJ Hi, Judy, What a great question to get cleared...

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Are You Waiting to be Perfect Before You… ?

Many women live with the idea that they need to be perfect before they put themselves out there - fully - into their lives. If that describes you, this week's video may be a much-needed encouragement to stop putting your life on hold.  

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Ditch "The Rules"!

Are you a single gal who follows "The Rules" (or thinks you should)? My suggestion: dump 'em! Get real, be available, and stop the games; men who are ready aren't interested in them.  

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Read or Needy?

Dear Karen, I met a man recently who started emailing or calling at least once (if not several times) a day - almost immediately.  At first I was enjoying the attention, but it’s feeling like it’s a bit much…am I just not letting myself have what I say I want? -...

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Men and Their Feelings

Are you a woman who has wondered whether or not men have feelings? Have you wanted them to share with you, and they haven't? This week's tip will help to facilitate opening up your man.  

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Saying "No" is Actually Kind

Dear Karen, I am really putting myself out there and dating quite a bit.  I have a question about something that comes up a lot: when I know that a man is not someone I’m interested in for the long-term, I don’t know how to break it off kindly, so I tell them I would...

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Self-Love is the Answer

Dear Karen, I have been seeing a guy I really, really like, and he’s not calling me as much as I want.  How can I get him to show more interest in me? - Jill, CT Dear Jill, First of all, awesome that you’ve met someone you like.  It’s a great feeling, isn’t it?  The...

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Trusting Men – Why It Can Be So Hard

Dear Karen,
 How do I know (really) if and when I can trust this guy I’ve been dating? — Virgine, CA Dear Virgine, When a woman talks with me about trust issues with her man, or men in general, we often end up talking about the level of trust she has in herself. ...

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Self-Appreciation is VERY Important!

You do a lot. You're out there trying. Do you acknowledge your progress, your successes, your brilliance? Or are you "not there yet"? This week we talk about the importance of self-appreciation.

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