Karen, I’ve met a man I am pretty excited about – I’ve dated SO many men over the last few years, and he seems to have everything I’m looking for. That’s the great news. Now, the one little “red flag”, which is why I’m writing, is that he’s in his early 50s, and has...
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Can He Change His Mind and Commit?
Dear Karen, I’ve been dating a man for the past couple of months, and I’m crazy about him. I’ve never connected with someone so well, or so deeply. My only issue is that he’s told me that he is not interested in being in a committed relationship (he’s just gotten...
Tapping (EFT) Help for "Those" Moments
Those" moments when: you are furious with your man; you're so nervous about your date you can't think clearly; you're having a talk and you're feeling overwhelmed with emotion... try this quick technique (it works like a charm!).
Paying on a Date
Hello Karen, I have a quick question: I’ve just gotten back into the dating “scene” after many years of being in a relationship. What’s the deal with paying on dates? Thanks for any guidance you can offer. – Judy, NJ Hi, Judy, What a great question to get cleared...
Are You Waiting to be Perfect Before You… ?
Many women live with the idea that they need to be perfect before they put themselves out there - fully - into their lives. If that describes you, this week's video may be a much-needed encouragement to stop putting your life on hold.
Make Up a Better-Feeling Story
If you find yourself hurt or angry because of what you think your man has done (or not done), check out this week's tip.
Ditch "The Rules"!
Are you a single gal who follows "The Rules" (or thinks you should)? My suggestion: dump 'em! Get real, be available, and stop the games; men who are ready aren't interested in them.
Read or Needy?
Dear Karen, I met a man recently who started emailing or calling at least once (if not several times) a day - almost immediately. At first I was enjoying the attention, but it’s feeling like it’s a bit much…am I just not letting myself have what I say I want? -...
These Things May Be Hurting Your Relationships with Men
Ads, TV shows, the Internet, emailed jokes, etc. They are influencing how you see men, how you feel about them, and - of course - your experience of them. Watch this video for tips on how to tune out all the noise.
Men and Their Feelings
Are you a woman who has wondered whether or not men have feelings? Have you wanted them to share with you, and they haven't? This week's tip will help to facilitate opening up your man.
Give Yourself Freedom Through Forgiveness
Are you being held back because you haven't forgiven someone for something? You have the ability to free yourself!
Saying "No" is Actually Kind
Dear Karen, I am really putting myself out there and dating quite a bit. I have a question about something that comes up a lot: when I know that a man is not someone I’m interested in for the long-term, I don’t know how to break it off kindly, so I tell them I would...
The Best 4-Letter Word in Dating: N-E-X-T!
How many times have you been devastated because that man you got so attached to seeing again didn't call back? The cure? N-E-X-T!
Do You Have a Hard Time Focusing?
The feminine/gatherer's "diffuse awareness" can make it tricky to give our man the attention he may be needing. A little perspective always helps.
Self-Love is the Answer
Dear Karen, I have been seeing a guy I really, really like, and he’s not calling me as much as I want. How can I get him to show more interest in me? - Jill, CT Dear Jill, First of all, awesome that you’ve met someone you like. It’s a great feeling, isn’t it? The...
Trusting Men – Why It Can Be So Hard
Dear Karen, How do I know (really) if and when I can trust this guy I’ve been dating? — Virgine, CA Dear Virgine, When a woman talks with me about trust issues with her man, or men in general, we often end up talking about the level of trust she has in herself. ...
Does His "Single Focus" Hurt Your Feelings?
When you don't understand the way the single-focused masculine energy works, it can be easy to get hurt. Check out this week's installment!
Are You Having Enough Fun?
Fun is so important, and many women don't make it a high enough priority. Take care of this issue...it could be an emergency!
Communication, Expectations, and Dogs
When we "hear" communication that isn't in our "language", connection, understanding, and joy is possible in a relationship...just like with our dogs!
Self-Appreciation is VERY Important!
You do a lot. You're out there trying. Do you acknowledge your progress, your successes, your brilliance? Or are you "not there yet"? This week we talk about the importance of self-appreciation.