If you're like most women, you want a depth of connection with the men in your life. Without being aware of it, you may be doing things that derail that from happening.
Are You Preventing Him from Opening Up to You?
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Is Your Cup Too Small?
For many women, being able to have the kind of love that we long for is unattainable - because the amount of self-love and acceptance needed to receive that love from others isn't there.
He Has No Commitment History
Karen, I’ve met a man I am pretty excited about – I’ve dated SO many men over the last few years, and he seems to have everything I’m looking for. That’s the great news. Now, the one little “red flag”, which is why I’m writing, is that he’s in his early 50s, and has...
Valentine's Day – From Many Men's Perspective
This week's video helps women understand what Valentine's Day is like for many men, from a pretty racy perspective. If you are easily offended, don't watch it!
Make Sure You're Filling BOTH Your Tanks!
If you want your relationship to provide you with great juice when you need it, make sure you're taking care to keep both of the love tanks filled up.
He Won't Talk About His Feelings
Dear Karen, I am feeling so frustrated with my boyfriend. We’ve been dating for 5 months, and we are exclusive in the relationship. We see each other mostly every day. The issue is he is not very forthcoming in talking about personal feelings that we have towards...
Dad on a Pedestal
Hello Karen, I am not sure what you can do to help me, but here goes: I have been dating like a maniac (seems like forever now), and have yet to meet a man who fits what I am looking for. My father, who is my total hero, keeps being a great support to me – he just...
Listen to Learn More About His Reality
Just like women prefer to be heard when expressing their feelings, men want to be received and heard as well - without you arguing with their reality, or turning them into an improvement project. Want to create more connection with the men in your life? This week's...
How to be Safe While Online Dating
If you're already dating online, or in the process of getting onto a site, it's a smart thing to do! However, you are meeting strangers, so it's also important to feel safe while enjoying the experience. Here are some tips on how to safely date online.
Don't Fall into this Bad Habit…
Do you take care of yourself (your body, the way you dress, etc.) in a way that works for you... and your man? In committed relationships, we have made a promise, whether stated or implied, to keep up with ourselves. Check out this video for encouragement!
You Cannot Afford to Kid Yourself About Him
Are you one of those gals who can overlook certain (less-than-desirable) traits when you meet a man you really dig? STOP! Watch this video on some tips to help you find the right kind of traits in a man, and stop putting up with the unacceptable ones.
Hibernating Men
Dear Karen, I have trouble when men go "into their caves." I don't know how to balance hanging in there with nagging. Any ideas? — Jennifer” Dear Jennifer, You bring up an issue that, in some ways, is at the heart of the "Mars” and “Venus" conversation. For women...
Do Not Wait for Perfect – it is Not Possible
Dear Karen, I’m overweight, and I know that men are visual and are really into how women look. I don’t think they’d want to date me until I’m thin. What’s your opinion on what I should aim for, before I put myself out there? Is there an optimal “look” (weight) that...
Want to Online Date More Confidently?
Authentic self-confidence - It's magical! As you'll learn when you hear this woman's awesome story about online dating!
Do You Fall Into This Trap During the Holidays?
I hope my own childhood story helps you navigate this holiday season so that you're giving - and getting - what matters most.
Expectations Kick Your Relationship's A$$
Expectations...ugh! They are responsible for so many upsetting experiences in our relationships. Check out this video for some new ways to approach your relationship.
How to Effectively Handle His Relationship With His Ex-Wife
Hi Karen, My boyfriend is almost divorced, and it’s been a wild ride (although quieter lately). She called him last night (he did not answer - she left a voicemail), wanting to talk with him because she had a few questions about her car. Why is she still calling...
He Does Not Really Want You
Karen, I’m in love with a guy who does not feel the same way about me. When he calls me to get together, I jump at the chance (which is only about every few weeks or so). Is there a possibility that this could lead to me having what I want - a committed...
Are Men Able to Give to You?
Women, all to often, get in the way of men being able to give to them - without even knowing it! Check out this quick video to see if this is true about you, and how to get out of your own way.
How to Change a Man
Are you in a relationship with a man who needs to change in order for you to be happy/ier? This week's video tip is for you!