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When You Cannot Help Being Judgmental

Are you being judgmental in your relationship?  Do you know why?  It's (probably) one of two things: you're afraid, or you cannot accept him.  This week's video tip helps you explore this very tough, and painful, situation.  

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How to Date AND Stay in Good Emotional Shape

Do you hold back from dating (more) because you're not sure you'll be able to feel good through the process?  This week's video tip will give you two important things to keep in mind.  And if you want help with your "blueprint", please check out my upcoming program:...

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Run Away – Quickly

Dear Karen, I’ve had a few dates with this guy, and I really like him.  He’s just about perfect in every way, but there have been a few signs that he’s got a bit of a temper. I’ll give you a couple of examples: one time when we were driving to dinner, and another time...

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Attraction When Choosing a Man

Dear Karen, I have been getting tons of matches on eHarmony and am enjoying the experience so far.  However, often when I look at the pictures a man has posted I know automatically I am not attracted to him, yet I feel guilty closing the match just on that reason.  Am...

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Is Your Cup Too Small?

For many women, being able to have the kind of love that we long for is unattainable - because the amount of self-love and acceptance needed to receive that love from others isn't there.

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He Has No Commitment History

Karen, I’ve met a man I am pretty excited about – I’ve dated SO many men over the last few years, and he seems to have everything I’m looking for.  That’s the great news.  Now, the one little “red flag”, which is why I’m writing, is that he’s in his early 50s, and has...

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Dad on a Pedestal

Hello Karen, I am not sure what you can do to help me, but here goes: I have been dating like a maniac (seems like forever now), and have yet to meet a man who fits what I am looking for.  My father, who is my total hero, keeps being a great support to me – he just...

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Listen to Learn More About His Reality

Just like women prefer to be heard when expressing their feelings, men want to be received and heard as well - without you arguing with their reality, or turning them into an improvement project. Want to create more connection with the men in your life? This week's...

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How to be Safe While Online Dating

If you're already dating online, or in the process of getting onto a site, it's a smart thing to do! However, you are meeting strangers, so it's also important to feel safe while enjoying the experience. Here are some tips on how to safely date online.

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You Cannot Afford to Kid Yourself About Him

Are you one of those gals who can overlook certain (less-than-desirable) traits when you meet a man you really dig? STOP! Watch this video on some tips to help you find the right kind of traits in a man, and stop putting up with the unacceptable ones.  

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Do Not Wait for Perfect – it is Not Possible

Dear Karen, I’m overweight, and I know that men are visual and are really into how women look.  I don’t think they’d want to date me until I’m thin. What’s your opinion on what I should aim for, before I put myself out there?  Is there an optimal “look” (weight) that...

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He Does Not Really Want You

Karen, I’m in love with a guy who does not feel the same way about me.  When he calls me to get together, I jump at the chance (which is only about every few weeks or so).  Is there a possibility that this could lead to me having what I want - a committed...

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Are Men Able to Give to You?

Women, all to often, get in the way of men being able to give to them - without even knowing it! Check out this quick video to see if this is true about you, and how to get out of your own way.  

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How to Change a Man

Are you in a relationship with a man who needs to change in order for you to be happy/ier? This week's video tip is for you!  

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How to Handle When He Hurt Your Feelings

Are you able to remain vulnerable, or do you go into anger (and even attack) mode when something your man did (or didn't do) has hurt your feelings? Today's video offers something to help you get closer to your guy, rather than creating more distance between you....

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He Has No Committment History

Karen, I’ve met a man I am pretty excited about – I’ve dated SO many men over the last few years, and he seems to have everything I’m looking for.  That’s the great news.  Now, the one little “red flag”, which is why I’m writing, is that he’s in his early 50s, and has...

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